Wednesday, 25 August 2010
Martha Nussbaum on conscience and burqa bans
The piece starts a really interesting discussion of equal dignity, accommodation for religious practice, and "conscience clauses", much of which I will have to digest further before I can comment on it.
She also responds to the most common arguments for the banning of the burqa, with some really clear points, and with particularly excellent attention to women's rights.
I can't pick a section to quote because it's all so good,** so do yourself a favour, hop on over, and read.
--IP
*I love her brain. Have I said I love her brain?
**I might have mentioned that I love her brain.
Slogans
No poetry has made it onto the blog yet, so I thought I'd be brave and start the ball rolling. This one was written for the Edinburgh Uni Feminists and Literature Society joint poetry night, which had the theme of "voices". It's written to be spoken, but hopefully it works ok on the page too.
Ya basta!
Enough.
My voice was not strong enough when we marched
Me in my pushchair, ring a ring a roses round the roundabout to tell them
That nurseries should not be the first thing to go when times get hard
You say cut back we say fightback!
Maggie Maggie Maggie, OUT OUT OUT!
And we won.
I remember there were whistles to make us louder
and how my mother said, not yet
and how when the time came she was proud, proud of me
of my voice
We're here, we're queer, we will not live in fear!
and every time I raise it in slogans and songs
she's singing with the Greenham women
reclaiming the night through the decades
A strong arm makes a gude cause
Not the church and not the state, women must decide their fate!
I bought a whistle on the first big demo I went on alone
As bombs fell on Baghdad
It had a rainbow ribbon and a clear, rippling sound
Hey hey LBJ
Bush Blair CIA
Bush Blair Uncle Sam Iraq will be your Vietnam!
My voice is not just mine.
I am a point on a shining web
A convergence of people
Then and now and here and there
Oh you can't scare me I'm sticking to the union
Tin cans on string
The complexity of servers, wires, modems, screens
The nerves in a brain, too complicated to really understand
Everything that anyone has ever said to me.
Everything I have ever wanted to say.
Everything that has been said in unison.
Everything that was tiny in the silence.
The slogans that we shouted
Together, because that way
We're stronger
The times when my father used the right word
even though I wouldn't understand
And explained it so I would.
The times when words wouldn't come and a song
Said it instead. How did they know
What I couldn't say?
The times when words fall like stones from my mouth
And my friends know what they mean
And how to pick them up.
The poems that hatch like dragonflies from my lips
Because nothing else will say it
And because it has to be said.
I am still looking for the whistle,
the one which will make me heard -
A way to hold the threads,
los pueblos, unidos, jamas seran vencidos!
a way to channel this breath of mine
A rainbow ribbon to tie round my neck,
a charm and a talisman, from which to hang my dreams.
Sunday, 22 August 2010
Today in Fail
Well, its short gloss informs me that its purpose is to make my ladylife easier by helping me to
Easily calculate prices including taxes and determine tax amount.
You know, because my ladybrain can't do maths.
*Vomit*
--IP
Saturday, 21 August 2010
Friend, this love poem is as heartfelt as any romance...
For my course on the anthropology of kinship, I had to draw a genealogical chart of my own kinship. That's basically a family tree, with triangles for men and circles for women (and I'm not even going to go into that right now...), equals signs for marriage and lines going from parents to children. Looking at it, it seemed pretty incomplete. The assumption that those lines are what make up my life – which is still, at quite a basic level, assumed in our society – would leave me floating in a sea of temporary relationships while I wait to find a permanent sexual partner and settle down. This is not to devalue the relationships that this does map - my genealogical family are still really important to me. But what about all the other relationships in my life? What about my flatmates? I see them every day, and our lives together have meaning which doesn't fit into that scheme. What about my best friend, whose importance in my life totally defies conventional description? Why should friendship be second to variations on procreation? What about the possibility that I might not get married or have children? What about the possibility that I might love more than one person at once?
The study of kinship is a really big deal for oldschool anthropologists, and it's historically based on exactly this kind of genealogical chart. When kinship first became and area of study in its own right, genealogy – who was involved in your procreation and who you're supposed to be procreating with – were used as the basic units of kinship, regardless of what culture was being considered. It obscured everything else, despite these things simply not being that important in some places. The reason for this was because it really was a big deal for the anthropologists themselves, because that's the basis of our official kinship system in Euro-American culture, and that's what they were basing their analyses on, without quite realising it. Kinship is naturalised to the point where it seems self-evident; they did not necessarily question this official kinship in their own lives, and they did not question it in terms of talking about other cultures either.
And meanwhile, outside academia, people struggle with being outside official kinship all the time. What happens if you don't fit in? The changes of the last 50 years (readily available contraception, growing acceptance of queer relationships, later marriage, the increasing possibility of not getting married at all, the greater likelihood of divorce and remarriage) showed up genealogy as not the be-all-and-end-all that we thought it was. And yet, so many important parts of life are based on it – broadly, it still forms the basis for what is recognised as an important relationship by the rest of society. It shapes the trajectory of our lives in a way which are seriously limiting, and using it to try and understand people who do kinship in different ways is limiting too.
Lots of anthropologists have gotten over it and started looking at kinship in terms of which people are seen as important to each other, and in what ways, doing their best not to make any assumptions about “biology”. Practical kinship – that is, kinship which doesn't necessarily fit with the official rhetoric of any given culture but which is important to people's everyday lives – is gaining ground as an important area of study. The general trend in anthropology is to try not to see cultures as homogenous but to see the conflicts and disagreements over things, so the different versions of kinship within any given group also get some attention.
It can actually be kind of hard when there's no way of validating or confirming how important these relationships are – it's difficult to validate something that there's no word for, that's seen as trivial or a stop-gap. It makes me angry that the lines that join us are considered less important just because there's no vows or procreation involved. Gay relationships are slowly gaining ground as valid, aided by the fact that they can be approximated to straight relationships, but other relationships still loose out – polyamourous relationships, friendships, relationships based on shared ideals or activism. In that context, to tell people how much they mean to me, I have to sort of triangulate my way with words that mean something like it – often kinship words. But it's never that they're metaphorically those things, or that they are in the traditional sense of the words. It's just that, there's an approximation there, and although the rest has to be said in other ways, we only have our shared language to try to articulate it out loud.
Understanding all this is important for the acceptance and validation of all kinds of kinship for ourselves, where practical relatedness is changing quicker than the official way of talking about it (as is probably the case anywhere), and anthropology, if it is going to do its job, has to understand this too. The idea that queer kinship (in the broadest sense) as important in its own right (rather than an emulation of, y'know, “proper” kinship) is aided by the idea that traditional, official ideas about kinship are just a cultural construction rather than “natural” and inevitable. Opening up to the possibilities of kinship is not only good for the basic anthropological project of fostering understanding between cultures, but also for understanding the huge possibilities of our own kinship and expanding the horizons of our own relationships. And in the end, these things are the same ideal.
Down on ASBOs
Except...can you spot the problem?
If you guessed "not covered under any specific law" you guessed right, and you get to wear the cloggs of clever.
"Stop taking the piss, Not Necessarily Otherwise Specified" orders (or ASBOs, as they are more commonly known) are social justice issues because they can be slapped on people who have not been charged with any crime. They're purpose is to restrict dodge activity that is hard to prosecute under other laws, like stalking or being disorderly (although actually, there are laws to prosecute these behaviours). But in practice they tend to be used either in cases where the behaviour is already illegal (eg, stalking, underage drinking) or where there is a good reason that the behaviour is not criminalised (like: it would be about seventeen different kinds of immoral to make it illegal).
Can you guess who is most likely to be affected by ASBO abuse? Hint: consider the latter case.
If you guessed "people who deal with societal oppression", then you get to wear the cloggs of clever and the pants of smart.
A couple of weeks ago, Kate posted about the Met "naming and shaming" sex workers on their website. Why had the Met done this? It's part of a policy of "naming and shaming" people with ASBOs. From the Guardian article:
A Met spokesman said the asbos against the Newham women had been used as a last resort because they were persistent offenders, and that decisions to publicise the identities of people issued with asbos were made on a case-by-case basis."Persistent offenders"? So, let's see what crimes the women had been convicted of (multiple times, from the sound of "persistent")?
Sex workers and their support groups have condemned a police operation to "out" prostitutes even when they have not been convicted of any crime.
[...]Police took photographs of the Polish women, who were not charged.
Wait, you mean they weren't convicted of a crime? Not even charged with a crime? So in what sense are they "persistent offenders"?
Ah, well, you see, they are sex workers, which means have received money in exchange for some kind of sexual interaction. An activity which is totally legal. And which they have engaged in more than once.
(Other activities which are legal, in case you were wondering, include: surfing, drinking tea, and writing about how pissed off you are at the Met.)
On the other hand, activities which are not legal include: sex trafficking, rape, and sexual assaults.
On top of the obvious humiliation and threat to the two women involved of having their personal information broadcast to the world, the implication for other sex workers is huge. The Met
Also: it's not just sex workers who are affected by societal biases in the use of ASBOs. The British Institute for Brain Injured Children found that more than one third of children with ASBOs have a mental disability.
Like I said: hurts people who need police support the most.
--IP
Monday, 16 August 2010
Basic guide for the sympathetic but uninitiated
This is a few lines about how to negotiate feminist and LGBTQIA issues without being offensive. It’s not meant to be patronising or anything, it’s just because a lot of people recently, in particular some of my straight male friends, have asked me what is acceptable in terms of questions to ask and topics to raise LGBTQIA people and feminists. The following are some things to remember and bear in mind.
1. Firstly and most importantly: If you don’t mean any harm by it, it’s unlikely that your friend or the person you’re talking to will be offended. We’re used to all sorts of ridiculous questions being fired at us, as well as straightforward abuse, so if you are sympathetic to their feelings, it’s pretty much safe to assume that it’ll be fine.
2. LGBTQIA stands for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Trans (an umbrella term including transvestite, transgender, transsexual, and sometimes other words too), Queer (sometimes Questioning, as in questioning one’s sexuality or questioning one’s gender), Intersex, Asexual (a person not desiring sex with someone else). If I’ve missed any out give me a shout.
3. Queer is sometimes used as a term to cover all LGBTQI people. Not everyone defines as queer, however, as they may not like the old-fashioned connotations the word has. Personally, I love the word, in the same way that I love the word ‘bitch’ used as a positive, reclaimed word. Other times queer is used in the sense of a gender identity that does not conform with heteropatriarchal ideas.
4. Heteropatriarchy is one of the things that links the LGBTQIA and feminist movements. Not all feminists are lesbians, but a lot of feminists are sympathetic because we have a shared problem – a society that, we believe, treats straight as the norm and anything else as ‘other’ and that treats the male and the stereotypically masculine as the ‘norm’ and the female, the intersexed person, the trans person, the queer, and the questioning as ‘other’. This is why gay people, trans people and feminists (for example) can quite often be found all working together. However, this is absolutely NOT to say that straight, non-TQI men have no problems – of course they do, and some of these problems might be caused by heteropatriarchy and the pressure and expectations it puts on them.
5. Feminism is a very broad movement, there isn’t a homogenous view shared by all of us. What feminists want and believe in is that women are equal to men, that they are currently treated as second-class citizens, and should be treated as such and that patriarchy should be dismantled. We have different ideas about the timescales and ways in which to solve these problems.
6. As you know, there’s an awful lot of terminology to get your head around. If you make a mistake, don’t worry. Just try again.
7. We love you. As someone sympathetic/allied to feminism, LGBTQIA issues, some combination of those, or all of those, you are putting yourself in the firing line and that is to be applauded and respected. You maybe don’t have to be an ally or a friend, but you are, and that is amazing. Thank you.
Wednesday, 11 August 2010
Berlin Calling
An important step in really acknowledging who I am (becoming) was moving to Berlin about 9 months ago to study at Potsdam University. The “Queer Capital of Europe” really deserves that soubriquet for a huge number of reasons: Thriving LGBT-scenes – although I have to say, there are a lot of L’s and G’s having Problems with the B’s and T’s and people of colour, queer or otherwise, so go figure – and the general gender-deconstructive madness when people from all over the world with almost every (sub-)cultural background imaginable meet, mingle and just do stuff together, not necessarily in the queer squat or the posh gay club and afterwards...
Nevertheless Berlin is, and has been for quite some time a place ridden with conflicts and contradictions of one kind or another where these political and societal conflicts and contradictions became and are becoming highly visible and, especially in the past, culminated in sometimes disastrous ways. Just for the sake of the argument: Take a walk on the squeaky clean Kurfürstendamm for example - passing by Gucci, Cartier, Hermes you name it (or rather, don’t), then hop onto the next U-Bahn and chances are you’ll see a homeless person timidly asking for money or food, or if she or he is lucky, selling a homeless magazine. Chances are he or she has an open leg. Chances are one or both legs are gone. There’s probably even a German flag on the wheelchair. Mind you, I don’t mean to be funny here. Get off the train again, and you just might run into a huge anti-capitalist, anti-nationalist, anti-fascist demonstration. Or the TCSD for that matter. Same difference, politically. All the while less than a half-hour drive outside Berlin will probably take you to a town completely dominated by neo-nazis. Hell, the place I study at used to be a Konzentrationslager once. It’s quite true, but also cynical when Klaus Wowereit (the openly gay mayor of Berlin) said: “Berlin’s poor, but sexy”. Granted: He addressed Berlin’s precarious budget and tried to stress its creative and therefore economical potential, after all we live in an age when the cultural is one of the most profitable industries. However, in a city where precarity is distributed so unequally along the lines of *drumroll* race, class, gender, sexual orientation and religion that’s a terrible statement.
As much as I hate to cut this ongoing story short: Berlin can be a quite an overwhelming place and I’d like to share a bit of what is going on in this truly queer, beautifully diverse and often downright heartbreaking, infuriating place, aside from the big tourist attractions; the small everyday struggles, the big “important” ones and everything in-between in Berlin and elsewhere: Potsdam University has a lot to offer in terms of queer feminist academia. Potsdam in general has a lot to offer in terms of political activism and otherwise. Oh, and I’ll try to update you on what is going on in Poland where my mum was born. Here, Homophobia is a much larger problem than in Germany. I’ll stop ranting now and close with a short scene from a street café somewhere in the posher parts of Berlin Kreuzberg:
A Woman on a bike approaches the scene. There are two children, a boy aged three or maybe four, definitely a pre-kindergartner, blabbering permanently, and a girl, a year younger maybe just looking at the scenery that must pass by in the trailer attached to the bike. They pass by a café. MARY – not even dressed very girly this day - is drinking a coffee with her/his friends and some acquaintances. It’s somebody’s birthday. Always is.
BOY IN THE TRAILER (to MARY): Are you a man or a woman?
MARY (enthusiastically, bordering on joyful): I don’t really know, exactly! (It sounded catchier in German.)
Meanwhile, the group of three approaches the distance where you can only make out certain words. It doesn’t help that the boy still has the manner of speaking of a, well, pre-kindergartner.
BOY IN THE TRAILER: But…But…But?! Mom!?! …asked…man…woman…has to…
Everybody at the table laughs, some more heartily than others. The acquaintances seem a bit confused when they notice MARY is dead serious.
Meanwhile the woman on the bike and the two children in the trailer go on going down the street. The woman listens to what the confounded boy asks. She looks back at me and smiles knowingly. I hope. In Berlin that’s possible, at least.
Tuesday, 10 August 2010
visibility, in black and white.
Sunday, 8 August 2010
Fair pay?
This is not a post about the Telegraph. This is not a post "defending" feminism. This is also not a post about saying who has it "worse". This is a post about the often-heard cry of "What about the men? The patriarchy hurts men too!" that I shall refer to as PHMT.
Let's take the example of equal pay. Equal pay for equal work. It's been feminist orthodoxy for longer than I care to think about, with the rationale that work is (equally worthy) work, whoever is doing it.
It's certainly the case that there is a gender-based trend with regard to certain work being unpaid or underpaid. This is a feminist concern.
It's also the case that not all the work that is underpaid is work done traditionally by women. There are a whole bunch of hard, skilled, boring, or dangerous jobs out there that are done predominantly by blue-collar men. Often: non-White men. Often: immigrant men. Often: working-class men.
For sure, I don't want to be paid less than my male co-workers for doing the same job: it's just not fair.
I also don't want the same shitty National Minimum below-the-breadline wage as the bloke next to me on [some basically shitty job]. My work is work. His work is work. We should both be able to put roofs over our heads and food on our tables. If we can't, that's also not fair. I also happen to think it's not fair that some people have to work basically shitty jobs.
So fair pay, to my mind, means something more than just saying "I want same number of pounds sterling per hour as the men I work with". It means "we all get fair pay". It means we have to re-think how the money is distributed and how the work is distributed. It means we have to re-think what fair means. "The same for men and women" is part of it, but not all of it.
The patriarchy does hurt men too, in lots of ways. (Lack of) Fair pay is just one way, and we can say that and also, at the same time, say that there is a specific problem with discrimination against women in pay and employment.
But PHMT is a problem feminism needs to take seriously. If for no other reason than that the Fair Pay Problem shows that men's liberation (and antiracism, anti-xenophobia, and anti-classism) are part and parcel of women's liberation.
--IP
Saturday, 7 August 2010
'The Slap'
An interview with Christos Tsiolkas, author of 'The Slap', a book which has been criticised for being misogynistic and praised for being a 'masterpiece.
Tsiolkas is a gay man and his book (and this article) look at race, sexuality, 'queer parents', 'skips', and contemporary Australia.
I'll let you make up your own minds.
Met police publish personal details of sex workers; Legal aid 'shake up' likely to affect victims of domestic violence; Legal challenge to Budget
The Metropolitan Police in London has published the photos, full names and dates of birth of three sex workers in East London. (The News of the World then ran with the story.) A force that should be protecting these women is exposing them to more danger.
And a 'shake up' of legal aid will cut the number of firms able to offer legal aid services from 2400 to 1300, putting victims of domestic violence at risk, especially for those living in rural areas with poor public transport, including parts of Wales and also Lincolnshire, where I grew up.
This, on top of the recent news that police in England and Wales will no longer have the power to ban domestic abusers from victims' homes.
And the Fawcett Society some days ago announced its legal challenge to the Budget set out by the coalition government, due to it disproportionately affecting women and minority groups.
I feel like hiding under a rock for the next five years.
But it would be better to agitate and organise. And so we will march.
Friday, 6 August 2010
Antifeminist article in the Telegraph is dangerous and stupid
Here are I my thoughts on the article, unusually succinct for me:
He is clearly unwilling to accept the facts - and has misinterpreted the ones he does know. One in four women suffer domestic violence during their lifetime - this does not mean that one in four men 'batter their wives' as he puts it; some men will be serial abusers and some of those one in four women will not stay in that relationship for life.
Someone in the comments section calls this article 'specious' and that is profoundly accurate. It shows little respect for the findings of social sciences or for the struggles women have faced and continue to face every day, for example some women in Darfur being unable to leave their homes to collect water without facing the threat of sexual violence.
Clearly he feels uncomfortable with the challenge of feminism's calling and is using the study to defend himself as a man.
Doesn't he get it? Women just wanted to be treated like human beings. 'Feminism is the radical notion that women ARE human beings.' (Charis Kramarae)
We don't particularly like having to campaign and complain so much - feminists aren't sympathetically looked upon - and if we were treated as equals we would stop.
Neil Lyndon, we just wanted to be treated as human beings. Here and across the world, the fight for women's equality is far from over. Please leave your own neuroses out of a serious debate that involves the lives and fates of real women.
P.S. These thoughts don't even touch on the way Lyndon examines gender in the article or the bit where he assumes that Fay Weldon speaks for feminists everywhere.
What a profoundly stupid piece of writing.
Thanks to Jenna for the heads-up
Thursday, 5 August 2010
Lady Gaga's phallicity
It's pretty awesome.
Especially if, like me, you are Team Gaga.
Check it out.
dear katy perry...
come on, california.
Wednesday, 4 August 2010
Budget cuts will affect victims of domestic violence
How on earth this can be justified is completely beyond me.
Does anyone know anything more about this particular policy and can enlighten us on the breadth and depth of the impact this will have.
Tuesday, 3 August 2010
UK Asylum seekers can come out
(Um, yeah. Apparently, it was previously seen as completely acceptable to return asylum seekers to places they were going to be persecuted or killed, with the words "suck it up and deal, and don't flaunt it!" Le sigh. Thank goodness for the bravery of these two gay men, one from Cameroon, one from Iran, who have fought this up through the courts.)
The BBC coverage is here, and the Guardian coverage is here. The BBC article quotes Lord Hope as saying:
About time too.Lord Hope, who read out the judgement, said: "To compel a homosexual person to pretend that his sexuality does not exist or suppress the behaviour by which to manifest itself is to deny his fundamental right to be who he is.
"Homosexuals are as much entitled to freedom of association with others who are of the same sexual orientation as people who are straight."
Also: the court's decision was unanimous.
--IP